项链

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昨天,探望公公时,遇上了它。

一模一样的它,就在她的颈上,

同一个模形;
同一个质料;
同一个位置;
同一个意思;
不同的人物。

一年前,她的颈项曾经有过它的痕迹。是我亲手将它带上,也是我亲手将它摘下。

昨天,我不停的望着,不停的想着。回想起当时的情景。

有时候会想,一项便宜的坠链,能带给我们什么效果?

有人说,它是一种保护,替你消灾解难。
有人说,它是一种物质上的需求,让你有自信面对真个世界。
有人说,它是一种思念,在你孤单时,仿佛你心上的人就在你身边。
也有人说,它是一种代表,代表着,请别打我的主义。

当然,我有我自私的一面。
我不相信一项坠链能够带来什么保护,
更不相信我送得起多么美丽到能够满足到物质上的秤砣品,

我只是希望它是一种思念的辅助品,将在一起过得每一步都呈现出来。
也希望看到的,都能够适可停此。

最近看到很多甜蜜的景象,从追求,到热恋,到订婚,到结婚,到蜜月,到家庭,到新生命,到二度蜜月,都有。。。

某某人说的对,新娘是漂亮的。但我认为,呈现着他们的美丽的,是无限的盼望及期待。

期待那美满的婚姻新生活。

项链,终会有戴上与摘下的时候。

爱情,会吗?

原你快乐 :)
顺便原我快乐 (^__^)


Fatal professionalism

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Seeking proffessionalism isn't easy. Not to say that if one had never have one before, it applies the same to the experienced. Weather one has been involving, participating directly or the other way round, the same, I believe, applies to all.

The reason for being that is that due to the never-ending change of humanity.

For instance, meeting.

Conducting a meeting isn't easy, and good meeting never comes free. Rather, it comes with risk.

Meeting, I believe, is also one of the professionalism that one might posses. Be it from experience, born talent, genetics, trained, etc.

To have a succesfful meeting, a proper planning I perhaps, is one of the crucial task. Because without planning, things go haywired easily.

Information might goes wrong.
Participants might not be happy and thus making their productivity drops.
The meeting might end later than expected, procrastination is the thief of time.

In other words, efficiency is not there.

Same goes to the participant. If a meeting is not planned and conducted well, same things happen!

You don't prepare well because you aren't aware of.
You discuss things that should had discussed before the meeting.
You waste others time waiting for you to think on the spot.

In other words, efficiency is not there.

Back to the topic. If a person that seeks professionalism is to be involved in such event, can we expect the person to smile?

Or should it be the other way round, expecting the person to be frustrated?

A professionalism seeker that has been involved event that was handled in a more professional way.
A professionalism seeker that wishes to involve in a event that was handled professinonally.
A professionalism seeker that seeks professionalism.
A professionalism seeker as described above, but snipe shot by fatal professionalism.

*Assume the professionalism seeker can reincarnate so that exaggeration can be applied here*